I hate this. "change something"... yes, I know EXACTLY what I need to change, it's not ethical, it requires lying to the one person I never want to hide from, and it will make them unhappy. So I CAN'T change something to make me happy. It just makes me angry that someone, somewhere, thought life could be this easy, and that people who should know better (i.e. someone who has a history of mental health issues) think it's a good meme to share. It just makes me feel worse.
Completely with you. Because lying to the one person you don't want to won't make you happy, not really, cos it's not just the having a child, it's the having a life with the child and the person you love. And that's no change you can make to make that happen, that's something you have to wait and hope for. And that sucks and hurts.
ReplyDeleteYou put that into words so much better than I did. That was exactly what I was trying to get across. Thank you.
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